I am so excited to feature the amazing Geri Alicea of Womb Prep in a special guest series all month long about, yep, you read that right … SEX!! Hold onto your seats because this is gonna be good!
Haven’t read the other posts in this series, yet?
Post #1: Let’s Talk About Sex
Post #2: Boring Sex? No, Thank You.
Post #3: Let’s Make Love for Love’s Sake
Post #4: Time for a LIttle Rendezvous
Post #5: Show Him a Lil Somethin’ Somethin’
Post #6: Tell Him What You Want
They Say Touching Leads to Other Things
When I was younger, I would see movies where a parent or grandparent would tell a young person not to touch the opposite sex because touching leads to other things. And well, what do you know? They were right! 😂 Touching can definitely lead to some other things. If done in the right place, in the right way, at the right time – touching can heat things up quite a bit. Which leads me to ask this question: When was the last time you touched your husband? Not because he touched you first or because he asked you to. But just because you wanted to?
As women, it’s no secret that we love being touched. Whether it’s a massage, a sweet caress or something more sensual – most of us love the feeling of our husband’s hands on our bodies. And although there’s this myth that men don’t like to be touched, it’s just not true. Your husband loves feeling your hands just as much as you love feeling his.
Do you want to touch your husband more but don’t really know where to start? Try this:
1. Massage his scalp.
You know that relaxing, all-around good, feeling you get when you go to the salon and get your hair washed? Well, sis, your husband wants to feel that too. So run your fingers through his hair and massage his scalp. And if you really want to heat things up, add kissing to this equation. Will that combination, he’ll definitely get the message.
2. Caress his chest/stomach.
You know how it feels when your man is trying to get you in the mood and starts touching your chest and stomach? Like all of the nerves are going crazy (in a good way) at the same time? Well, your husband has those same nerves in his chest and stomach. So maybe it’s time for a little payback. Take your time exploring his chest and stomach area. Find out where his hot spots are and pay close attention to those areas.
3. Massage his penis.
Yes, sis, you read that right LOL. After all, this is a blog about sex. Seriously though, your man’s penis is a muscle and just like any other muscle in the body it needs to be worked for it to work. Start off by just touching and teasing his penis to see his reaction. Then proceed to massage while applying a little pressure. Trust me, when you do this he will have absolutely no doubt of what you’re trying to do.
Touching your husband is a great way to spicing things up in the bedroom. So tonight, instead of waiting for him to touch you, switch things up a little and see how hot you can make him with just your touch.
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