Sex is a Team Effort, Not a Solo Sport

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I am so excited to feature the amazing Geri Alicea of Womb Prep in a special guest series all month long about, yep, you read that right … SEX!! Hold onto your seats because this is gonna be good!

Haven’t read the other posts in this series, yet?
Post #1: Let’s Talk About Sex
Post #2: Boring Sex? No, Thank You.
Post #3: Let’s Make Love for Love’s Sake
Post #4: Time for a LIttle Rendezvous
Post #5: Show Him a Lil Somethin’ Somethin’
Post #6: Tell Him What You Want
Post #7: They Say Touching Leads to Other Things
Post #8: Taste Test Anyone

Sex is a Team Effort, Not a Solo Sport

Hey, girl. Hey!


Wow!! I can’t believe this is the last article in the “Let’s Talk About Sex” blog series. I’ve had so much fun writing these articles and I hope you’ve had fun reading them. In the previous articles, we’ve talked about how your basic senses, along with switching locations, and communicating your needs can seriously heat things up in the bedroom. It’s important to remember that your sex life can’t solely depend on what your husband does or doesn’t do.


Sometimes a girl really should just take matters into her own hands.


If you realize that your man is the one who usually initiates times of intimacy, make a commitment to being more spontaneous. There are a number of ways you can pull this off… Here are a few:


1. If you notice he’s just trying to give you a quick peck on the lips; take it a step further and kiss him long and slow. This will let him know exactly what you have in mind.


2. When you get up to go the restroom in the middle of the night, find a creative way to wake him up instead of just going back to sleep. If you need some ideas on how to be creative, refer back to post #8 of this series 😉. You and hubby will both be tired the next morning but I promise it will be well worth it!


3. If you find yourself thinking about your husband (in THAT way) throughout the day, don’t keep those thoughts to yourself! Text him and tell him in explicit detail exactly what’s going through your mind. This will build anticipation for what’s to happen the next time you’re together.


As a wife, theres a certain level of work (interaction, initiation, spontaneity) you have to put in to make the best of your experience. Remember: Sex is a team effort, not a solo sport! So partner WITH your husband and commit to having better sex!


Geri Alicea
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